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canada goose clearance sale Iloilo City earned its title «La Muy Leal y Noble Ciudad» (Most Loyal and Noble City) through a royal decree by Queen Regent Maria Cristina of Spain through the city loyalty to the Spanish crown during the Philippine revolution thus it earned its moniker through that title as the Queen City of the South or Queen Regent City of the South, canada goose outlet london a title that through the years because of Iloilo socio economic importance and prominence next to Manila during Spanish colonial period has been colloquially referred to its form as Queen City of the South. The city Spanish inception and the royal decree further implies its status and reputation as the Second Spanish Royal City after Manila in the Philippines. canada goose clearance sale

Source: Wikipedia article, Iloilo City

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